Where does my Identity lie or is my identity a lie? If you are an adoptee what is your identity? Do you struggle to pin down who you are? Counselling is good, and therapies are good. Whatever we can get to help us work out the wrinkles in our identities.

Do we ever fit or slot neatly back into our bio family? The finding of the bio family was fairly easy for me. I have heard of some people having extreme struggles trying to locate where their bio Mum is.

Do I look like my biological family? Imagine when you meet your biological family that it will be like this, their arms flung wide running towards each other and throwing each other around in utter joy.

This is Me – Being a cuckoo or NOT! I took a few minutes to read up about cuckoos. For no reason as it turns out. Lol. Anyway, this is what I found …..

Good Grief – can I get over it? Well is there such a thing as adoptee grief? And is it any different to everyday grief? Grief – Because grief obeys its own trajectory, there is no timetable for feelings of pain after loss.

I was fuming at first when my lovely friend Anne sent me this picture taken close to where she lives. I thought to myself, so being adopted is that bad it’s now being spray-painted on local walls as an insult!